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 Published on this site: February 2nd, 2009 - See
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 "Imagination is more important than knowledge." I believe no
        truer words were   ever spoken and they were said by one of the
        greatest minds in the history of   humanity. Albert Einstein knew a
        thing or two about imagination. His ability   to think beyond
        convention, to question authority and the conclusions   of
        scientists who came before him, gave our world some of the   most
        significant scientific theories and discoveries of our   time.
 
 Imagination is one of the world's greatest forces. Human   beings
        have progressed and developed in direct relationship to   their
        collective imagination. All of our world's greatest   achievements
        were once just thoughts in the minds of people who dared to   dream
        them.
 
 When I travel I'm always amazed by the efficiency of   airlines.
        They get a bad rap from time to time, but when you really   think
        about all that goes into it, it truly is amazing. What
        imagination   there had to be to have the first flight take place?
        Each phase from man's   first flight to the multidimensional
        concept of air travel had to be taken as   an idea in someone's
        imagination before it could become a reality. Like   all
        visionaries, those who dared to conceive had to break through   the
        limited thinking of those around them and declare something like
        that   possible. Leonardo da Vinci, one of the world's greatest
        thinkers, inventors   and artists, drew elaborate drawings of
        flying machines all the way back in   the 15th century. It has been
        written that he created  machine that did fly,   but the religious
        leaders of the day labeled it an instrument of evil and   made him
        destroy it.
 
 The most dynamic aspect of imagination is the act   of forming
        mental images of what does not yet exist in our world.   Another
        level of imagination is creating a new idea or combination   of
        ideas stimulated by and based on previous experiences. But there
        is   something I refer to as creative imagination that takes us a
        step further   than just forming mental images. Creative
        imagination spurs action-it causes   things to come into existence.
        When we are creatively imagining something, we   are actually
        causing it to come into being because it has been formed for   the
        first time in our minds. Our images contain creative power.   Our
        thoughts are like magnets, literally drawing to us that which we
        think   about with passion or emotion.
 
 In order to achieve your dreams you have   to suspend disbelief and
        allow yourself to dream and do it on a repetitive   basis.
        Shakespeare said, "All the world's a stage. And all the men   and
        women merely players." He was a master at creating a theater in
        the   mind; with patrons of his plays suspending disbelief for a
        few hours to   believe what they saw on stage was true. The same
        happens to people when they   go to a movie. You know what you're
        seeing is fictitious, but you suspend   disbelief in your mind for
        those two hours and feel all the emotions as   you're watching the
        movie as if it were real. The same is true with your   imagination.
        If you would suspend disbelief and allow your mind to go   to
        positive places, thinking about what you want to be present in
        your own   reality, if you think about those things with enough
        feeling and enough   belief, you begin to manifest them in your
        life.
 
 I truly believe your   thoughts rule your world. That's why you
        need to be very careful about what   you think about. Most people
        think about what they don't want, what they're   afraid of, or
        what they can't do. They focus on the negative, and guess   what?
        They likely to lead a very unhappy, unfilled life filled   with
        anxiety rather than achievement. Whatever you think about, your
        world   eventually becomes.
 
 One of the challenges is the way most people are   programmed to
        think. The majority of the messages we receive when we are   very
        young involve conformity, and most people end up programmed that
        way.   As a child, you were taught to obey or suffer consequences.
        So it's little   wonder that when most people reach adulthood, the
        majority choose to   perpetuate conformity as the easiest and most
        expedient approach to life. We   prefer not to rock the boat
        because our need for approval is usually far   stronger than our
        desire to do something great.
 
 I personally believe   that conformity is one of the greatest
        psychological evils of human kind. Not   saying that there are not
        some rules for the sake of civilization that need   to be followed.
        I'm talking about conformity that breaks a person's   spirit-that
        takes away a person's capacity to dream a better life   for
        themselves and have the drive to achieve it. The need to conform,
        to   get approval from others, usually becomes the far greater need
        in our mind   over achievement and doing something great. The
        person caught in this   destructive habit never does anything
        worthwhile with his or her life. He   wants to do something great,
        be independent and do important things, but he   can't. His need
        to always be approved of prevents him. The conformist is   filled
        with the need for approval and he or she can never get enough.   He
        runs from one person to the next seeking compliments and
        endorsements   for his behavior and or actions. As a child, he or
        she probably turned to   teachers. When he started to work, he
        turned to his boss and fellow workers,   and in marriage he turned
        to his mate. The conformist must always have   someone around him
        to pat him on the head and tell him when he's doing a good   job.
        This bolsters up his poor self-esteem. By constantly   seeking
        approval, he escapes from the responsibility of creating his   own
        success and happiness and becomes totally dependent on others for
        his   well being.
 
 In order to be leader, a trailblazer, you have to break away   from
        conformist thinking.
 
 If you were to take an assessment of how you   think, are you more
        interested in approval from others and conforming (i.e.   an
        average, ordinary life and average, ordinary existence) or are
        you   interested in achieving something great? If you're going to
        aspire to do   something great, to lead people, and make something
        significant happen in   your life, then you have to drop every part
        of your desire to be a   conformist. And the problem is conformists
        probably surround you. You may be   married to one, surrounded at
        your job by some, and even parented by   conformists. Your need for
        their approval needs to diminish if you want to   make your dreams
        come true. In my opinion, the opposite of bravery is   not
        cowardice; it's conformity.
          
 Ed Mylett: Is an Executive Vice Chairman with World Financial Group (http://www.wfgnewsroom.com), a member of   the company's Chairman's Council and an inductee in WFG's Millionaire Hall   of Fame. He 
          lives in Chino Hills, Calif. with his wife, Kristianna, and   their 
          two children.  This article first ppeared in Opportunity, World 
          Financial Group's business and lifestyle magazine, vol. 3/issue 
          2/Quarter 2 2008. http://www.wfgnewsroom.com/.
 
 
  
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