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The Power of Thinking BIG
by Ed Mylett
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Published on this site: February 2nd, 2009 - See
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"Imagination is more important than knowledge." I believe no
truer words were ever spoken and they were said by one of the
greatest minds in the history of humanity. Albert Einstein knew a
thing or two about imagination. His ability to think beyond
convention, to question authority and the conclusions of
scientists who came before him, gave our world some of the most
significant scientific theories and discoveries of our time.
Imagination is one of the world's greatest forces. Human beings
have progressed and developed in direct relationship to their
collective imagination. All of our world's greatest achievements
were once just thoughts in the minds of people who dared to dream
them.
When I travel I'm always amazed by the efficiency of airlines.
They get a bad rap from time to time, but when you really think
about all that goes into it, it truly is amazing. What
imagination there had to be to have the first flight take place?
Each phase from man's first flight to the multidimensional
concept of air travel had to be taken as an idea in someone's
imagination before it could become a reality. Like all
visionaries, those who dared to conceive had to break through the
limited thinking of those around them and declare something like
that possible. Leonardo da Vinci, one of the world's greatest
thinkers, inventors and artists, drew elaborate drawings of
flying machines all the way back in the 15th century. It has been
written that he created machine that did fly, but the religious
leaders of the day labeled it an instrument of evil and made him
destroy it.
The most dynamic aspect of imagination is the act of forming
mental images of what does not yet exist in our world. Another
level of imagination is creating a new idea or combination of
ideas stimulated by and based on previous experiences. But there
is something I refer to as creative imagination that takes us a
step further than just forming mental images. Creative
imagination spurs action-it causes things to come into existence.
When we are creatively imagining something, we are actually
causing it to come into being because it has been formed for the
first time in our minds. Our images contain creative power. Our
thoughts are like magnets, literally drawing to us that which we
think about with passion or emotion.
In order to achieve your dreams you have to suspend disbelief and
allow yourself to dream and do it on a repetitive basis.
Shakespeare said, "All the world's a stage. And all the men and
women merely players." He was a master at creating a theater in
the mind; with patrons of his plays suspending disbelief for a
few hours to believe what they saw on stage was true. The same
happens to people when they go to a movie. You know what you're
seeing is fictitious, but you suspend disbelief in your mind for
those two hours and feel all the emotions as you're watching the
movie as if it were real. The same is true with your imagination.
If you would suspend disbelief and allow your mind to go to
positive places, thinking about what you want to be present in
your own reality, if you think about those things with enough
feeling and enough belief, you begin to manifest them in your
life.
I truly believe your thoughts rule your world. That's why you
need to be very careful about what you think about. Most people
think about what they don't want, what they're afraid of, or
what they can't do. They focus on the negative, and guess what?
They likely to lead a very unhappy, unfilled life filled with
anxiety rather than achievement. Whatever you think about, your
world eventually becomes.
One of the challenges is the way most people are programmed to
think. The majority of the messages we receive when we are very
young involve conformity, and most people end up programmed that
way. As a child, you were taught to obey or suffer consequences.
So it's little wonder that when most people reach adulthood, the
majority choose to perpetuate conformity as the easiest and most
expedient approach to life. We prefer not to rock the boat
because our need for approval is usually far stronger than our
desire to do something great.
I personally believe that conformity is one of the greatest
psychological evils of human kind. Not saying that there are not
some rules for the sake of civilization that need to be followed.
I'm talking about conformity that breaks a person's spirit-that
takes away a person's capacity to dream a better life for
themselves and have the drive to achieve it. The need to conform,
to get approval from others, usually becomes the far greater need
in our mind over achievement and doing something great. The
person caught in this destructive habit never does anything
worthwhile with his or her life. He wants to do something great,
be independent and do important things, but he can't. His need
to always be approved of prevents him. The conformist is filled
with the need for approval and he or she can never get enough. He
runs from one person to the next seeking compliments and
endorsements for his behavior and or actions. As a child, he or
she probably turned to teachers. When he started to work, he
turned to his boss and fellow workers, and in marriage he turned
to his mate. The conformist must always have someone around him
to pat him on the head and tell him when he's doing a good job.
This bolsters up his poor self-esteem. By constantly seeking
approval, he escapes from the responsibility of creating his own
success and happiness and becomes totally dependent on others for
his well being.
In order to be leader, a trailblazer, you have to break away from
conformist thinking.
If you were to take an assessment of how you think, are you more
interested in approval from others and conforming (i.e. an
average, ordinary life and average, ordinary existence) or are
you interested in achieving something great? If you're going to
aspire to do something great, to lead people, and make something
significant happen in your life, then you have to drop every part
of your desire to be a conformist. And the problem is conformists
probably surround you. You may be married to one, surrounded at
your job by some, and even parented by conformists. Your need for
their approval needs to diminish if you want to make your dreams
come true. In my opinion, the opposite of bravery is not
cowardice; it's conformity.
Ed Mylett: Is an Executive Vice Chairman with World Financial Group (http://www.wfgnewsroom.com), a member of the company's Chairman's Council and an inductee in WFG's Millionaire Hall of Fame. He
lives in Chino Hills, Calif. with his wife, Kristianna, and their
two children. This article first ppeared in Opportunity, World
Financial Group's business and lifestyle magazine, vol. 3/issue
2/Quarter 2 2008. http://www.wfgnewsroom.com/.
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