Embrace the Unlovable and Change your Life!
by Jimmy Roos
Published on this site: August 23rd, 2005 - See
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"The more you hate, the more you love."
What an ironic statement. Whoever said those words must have
been drunk. The bottom line is this: It is extremely difficult
to like or love something that you despise.
But what can we do to solve this dilemma? What if you're
trapped in an environment that you don't want to be involved
in? What if you're sick and tired of your job that you feel
like puking every time someone mentions your work?
The smart thing is to take inspired action and get yourself
out of your present rut to start living the life you've always
dreamed of.
Guess what? It's not going to be easy. You will have to come
out of your comfort zones to discover potentials and opportunities
waiting for you. You have to conquer your fear and take calculated
risks. You have to stay focused and persevere despite the
difficulties you will encounter.
Success doesn't come easy. It takes heart and passion. It
may also take some time before you can actually reap the fruits
of your labor.
But how do you actually survive this stage? This is the moment
when you're working extra hard to reach your goals. This is
also the instance when you're enduring whatever adversity
hits you.
For example, let's say you're employed in a job that you
hate. You know deep inside that you would not like to stay
in the rat race throughout your life. So you decided to engage
in a part-time business or to study night courses. Good move,
my friend.
So far so good. However a few days later things start going
wrong. Your family complains that you're neglecting them over
something that hasn't produced anything so far.
Not only that. You're getting crazy over your very hectic
schedule. Soon enough, attitude changes negatively. You get
mad and frustrated over the tiniest setbacks. You hate the
world for all the misery it has brought upon you.
Stop it right there!
That is the absolute wrong thing to do, because the law of
attraction states that whatever you resist will persist. That
means by being negative you attract more negative situations
in your life.
Yes, you have to work harder, dig deeper, and sacrifice more
to attain your ambitions.
But no, you don't have to hate the world and feel bad about
your difficult situation, because if you hate the world, the
world will hate you back.
So what do you have to do?
Learn to love your current situation. See all the positive
sides of life. Be enthusiastic. Love your boss, your coworkers,
your family, your friends, and even strangers that you meet
on the streets. It may not be easy, but nothing is impossible
with a strong will power. Just don't fall in love so much
that you totally forget about your dreams.
Balance is the key. Dream and take some positive action to
move you toward your goals. Take it one step at a time. But
while you're slowly crawling into the long journey to success,
be patient and be as enthusiastic as possible. Don't hurry
up too much that you totally forget how to enjoy life.
Focus on the things you want, because the law of attraction
also states that whatever you focus on expands. This means,
by focussing on the things you want, and not the things you don't want you'll attract what
you want faster.
One fine day, you will finally attain what you have always
longed for. But when that day comes, don't spit back on the
face of those who belittled you before.
Stay humble. Don't look down on others when you see that
you are becoming more successful than they are. Help them.
Inject your positive aura into their personalities. When you
give, you will yield back equal or greater rewards.
Are you ready to begin the journey? Start it with the courage
and desire to improve your life. Survive and go through it
with persistence, enthusiasm, and positive thinking. Finish
it with a resounding bang of accomplishment and with the desire
to help others succeed as well
Jimmy Roos, Tired of listening to people who teach
what they heard from others? Learn from someone who experienced
what you are going through and learn the secrets you won't
find in 90% of self-improvement books. Visit http://www.jimmyroos.com
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