Anthony Robbins' 12 Reasons Why People Don't Get Wealthy
by David Cameron
Published on this site: May 17th, 2005 - See
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According to Wallace Wattles, in his popular wealth treatise called
the Science of Getting Rich, said that, "There is a science
of getting rich, and it is an exact science, like algebra or arithmetic.
There are certain laws which govern the process of acquiring riches,
and once these laws are learned and obeyed by anyone, that person
will get rich with mathematical certainty."
It is true. Those who make wealth know that it comes about by application
of simple rules and principles. Those who don't make wealth don't
know about these simple things, and so they assume that wealth is
a result of luck or pure chance or something just as superstitious
or silly.
Anthony Robbins is one of the top success coaches in the world,
having coached star sports players, heads of states and Fortune
500 executives. In his Get The Edge program, he listed down 12 specific
reasons he has come to observe to be the leading causes for most
people's lack of wealth.
Here they are:
- They never decide and really define, very specifically, what
wealth means for them. The keyword here is specifically. Can you
imagine how hard it would be to build a car or a plane without
making a blueprint or sketch drawings of it first? You have to
know what your target is before you go chasing after it.
- They make wealth a moving target instead of a fixed one (this
is related to point one above). Once you have your target, fix
it. Don't change it until you reach it. You must accomplish each
step, celebrate, and then set course for a new step, a new target.
- They define it in a way that seems unreachable. You only achieve
what you believe. No more, no less. So you must make it believable
for you. Set goals that will make you move forward and stretch,
but not too high that even you yourself don't believe you can.
Take the biggest step you believe you can, achieve it, then take
the next biggest you believe you can. This will build positive
reinforcement in your self-confidence as well.
- They never start. Ok, this is obvious. If you keep thinking
about it forever, it will forever remain in the thought level.
You have to act! Start somewhere, anywhere! Only after you start
do you begin to get some feedback which will help you plot your
course better. The aircraft has to first take off before it starts
to adjust course for its destination. You must start, somewhere,
anywhere, doesn't matter, just start! Act!
- They never make it a must. Let me explain what it means to
make it a must. It means marshalling all your intent, your will,
your direction, into one singular flow that is directed towards
your goal. All obstacles are viewed as challenges to be overcome.
You will meet obstacles, and so expect it, but also expect to
move forward anyways. Use your obstacles to develop strength and
skills, don't run away. Find out how to go past them. Find out!
There is always a way, always. And if your emotions are acting
against your desire, embrace them, learn what they are, know yourself,
but keep moving forward. Make it a must, and it will happen. Guaranteed.
You don't know in how many steps it will take, but you know it
will happen.
- They don't have a realistic plan. If you want to do something,
find out how it is done from someone who has done it before. Make
a realistic plan. Copy from those who have succeeded before you.
But don't throw away your intuition. Your intuition is extremely
powerful once you learn how to listen to it with practice.
- If they have a realistic plan, they never follow through on
the plan. Well, if you don't follow the plan, who will?
- They give responsibility to others ("experts") instead
of to themselves. This way, they never really learn how to do
it, and if there are failures they never learn why the failures
happened and so they are bound to repeat them. It is a good idea
to get advice, but do it yourself. At least understand it yourself
even if you will delegate the actual doing.
- They give up when they face challenges. Going through the challenges
is what has made people rich, not giving up. Look, there are always
challenges. So get used to that. You will only get where you wish
to get to if you are willing to face the challenges along the
path. All challenges are opportunities dressed in work clothes,
remember that. After the challenge is over, you will discover
the amazing fruit it held for you.
- They fail to conduct their lives as a business; they never
ensure that they make a profit year by year. Get a personal finance
package like Quicken or Microsoft Money. you need to have budgets
and cash flow statements for your personal finances and your businesses.
It is easy with those software packages. If you don't keep records
and track, you wont know when you are making or losing money until
it is embarrassingly too late.
- They allow other people's ideas to affect their decisions unreasonably.
There will always be people who don't believe in your way, or
who are pessimistic, who try to pull you down, or whatever. And
they will sometimes be your closest friends and family. You cannot
change that - they have a right to be who they are. It is OK.
Allow them their thoughts, don't judge them for that, but don't
feel obligated to accept their thoughts of follow their way. Don't
allow other people, now or from the past, unreasonably affect
your decisions. Allow them their way, and you live your way.
- They don't get quality coaching. This is extremely important!
Coaching is simply getting mentored by someone who has succeeded
wildly in the area of your interest. Get coaching! Our education
system hardly equips us for real life, so don't assume that because
you went to college you are properly equipped. Hardly. You need
to keep learning. The most successful people attend seminars,
read books, join mastermind groups and clubs, find mentors, network,
and even hire expensive personal coaches to make sure they succeed.
How many of these reasons can you identify with? Well, now that
you see the reasons, you now can look at yourself and make sure
that you don't follow ways that are known to not lead to wealth.
Follow what works and it will work. And don't forget to enjoy yourself
along the way.

David Cameron is the author of wealth and self development
books such as A Happy Pocket Full of Money, showing many how to
create the lives of their dreams and beyond. Download free trial
ebooks, software, courses. http://www.imagesofone.com/?c=a

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