How You Can Overcome Adversity
by Dave Cole
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Published on this site: January 2004 - See
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Napoleon
Hill wrote, "In every adversity, there is the seed of an equal or greater
benefit".
Doesn't it just seem that the more you try to get things
accomplished, the more problems and obstacles that somehow, just crop up and are
required to be dealt with along the way?
Becoming a success doesn't just
happen.
Everything seems to be going along pretty well, when all of a sudden....up
comes this major roadblock.... seemingly, out of nowhere to try and trip you up.
Unfortunately
these hindrances just don't come to us complete with big signs that would explain
why they are there, and further more, just what steps we need to overcome these
unwanted obstacles.
Evan Hunter, a now world famous Novelist, had a dream.
Mr.
Hunter was a radar man aboard a Destroyer in the US Navy. He had a lot of free
time after his watch was over and decided that he was going to start on his road
to fulfilling his dreams.
He began to write mystery stories and sent them
to magazines hoping they would get published. Every one he sent, was returned
as being rejected. In fact, it got so bad, that his shipmates ran pools betting
on when his next manuscript would be returned.
Mr, Hunter, who is now 74,
said, "I never got discouraged though".
All the rejection notices:
only fueled even further his desire to become a famous writer.
After the
Navy, he earned a degree in English. Then, found a job that would help him get
experience in achieving his goal.
He kept on writing, kept on getting rejection
notices, but finally...sold 1 manuscript.
The sale netted him $12.60, before
taxes!
All those years of writing, getting an education, and countless rejection
notices had earned him less that 12 dollars for his efforts.
Just think
about all he had gone through, all the work he had done, and how that skinny little
check must have made him feel.
Would you have gotten discouraged by this
time?
But, Evan Hunter is a man who believes that optimism is the only way
to go! He looked at that adversity, recognized it for what it was, then found
that seed
of an equal or greater benefit!
He began to take a very hard
look at his technique. Instead of writing the standard fiction, Mr. Hunter decided
to draw on his own personal life experiences
and began to write what he knew
about.
"The Blackboard Jungle", published in 1954, became
an immediate success. Then it wasn't very long before he was
getting 2 to 3 books a year published and had achieved world
class fame.
Here's a man who overcame a lot of
adversity trying to achieve his life's dream. He welcomes challenges. He believes
that it forces him to stretch his efforts
and further forces him to streamline
his work efforts.
Always Remember This:
It's NEVER what happens TO YOU that really matters. What
is so much more important is,
HOW YOU REACT.... to those events and obstacles in your
path.
Have you got a
stumbling block on your road to success today?
If so, that's good! Look
for that seed of an equal or greater benefit.
It's always there, you just
have to find it.
The path to your success may not be easy. In fact, it will
most likely be littered with debris, detours, and a myriad of challenges.
How
you react to those challenges is everything!
Learn to recognize adversity
for what it really is. A challenge in disguise, sent to spur you on to greater
and greater heights and future accomplishments.

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