Achieve Your Goals With This Mind Trick
Zig Ziglar had a quote which read: "An optimist is someone who goes after Moby Dick in a rowboat
and takes the tartar source with him."
And I wanted to take a moment to expand on that quote today,
because metaphorically "Moby Dick" is the big dreams we are
But how many of us really believe we will create them?
In the back of our mind is a seed of doubt... an uncertainty...
or an unconscious belief that "I can't really do that."
Here's another Zig Ziglar quote I came across the other day:
"People often say that motivation doesn't last. Well, neither
does bathing - that's why we recommend it daily."
Nice quote. And it really pulls on the fact that consistency is
the key - that nothing just happens and lasts forever...
Baton Leadership Lessons From LA Philharmonic Conductor Dudamel
Imagine a crusty group of seasoned professionals standing, applauding and cheering a 28 year-old leader who has turned a same-old-same-old product into something fresh and exciting! This does NOT happen-particularly when the professionals are members of the Israel Philharmonic. But under the baton of young Maestro Gustavo Dudamel, orchestra members did just that.
Now, Southern California music lovers are witnessing the same magic of a man who started as a tot playing in El Sistema, the publicly funded program for children in Venezuela.
Public Speaking Skills: First Principle of Great Communication
We all need public speaking skills, even if it's only the skill
of asking a question at a local meeting of the Parents and
Teachers' Association. Over the years I have seen even very
experienced public speakers forget the most basic principle of
oral (spoken) communication.
Before sharing with you some general advice about principles of
oral or spoken communication, I am assuming that you know that
great presentations take hours, sometimes days, of dedicated
Introvert Marketing: Success Models May Help You Attract Business Your Own Way
In my survey of more than 300 introverts, less than half were
able to name a single notable person with their personality whom
they consider a model of success.
One respondent commented, "I guess I have assumed that if
someone is successful enough for me to know of them, they aren't
really an introvert."
It's easy to see how the conviction that success proves
extroversion can get set in people's minds. We're taught that
if you want to be successful, you must get out there and hustle.
Giving While You're Living, Or When You're Dead Instead?
Over the years, there have been many opinions and thoughts as to
the legitimacy of Cash Gifting as a viable and honest means of
generating cash. But at the heart of Cash Gifting is a
fundamental principle that is often overlooked and convoluted
with greed and the love of money. This principle is quite
simple... to help your fellow man (or woman) through giving, and
in return be recognized and rewarded for your participation in
the giving process.
Joy at Work, Work at Joy
The first decade of this new millennium has taught us some important
lessons, which many of us experienced personally in less pleasant ways. We
got confronted with traumatic job loss, foreclosure of property, and
overall, an increased degree of insecurity in our daily life. It is
therefore understandable that many cannot yet appreciate the message
enclosed in these occurrences. Yet, it is there, as clear as daylight: we
need to reevaluate our priorities, reconsider our mindsets and values, and
reframe our lives.
How You Can Beat 97% Of The Pack
When I was seventeen I remember doing a program called Discovery.
I think I was the only teenager who paid for half the fee and
begged and pleaded their parents to let them go.
Basically, it was a course which taught a lot of life skills from
motivation to how to deal with conflict... kind of like an
Anthony Robbins for teenagers.
Anyway, I remember them doing this exercise at the course where
they talked about how when a plane flies from Sydney to New York,
it is off course for about 97% of the flight.
Chickens Banging On The Golden Goose Success Door
As human beings we are not hapless victims, some of us are just
chicken. We have no excuse other than, we are just chicken.. Why?
Because we are given methods by which we can design the course of
our lives. And we can use this knowledge to help others, whom are so
deep in despair, that they can not see or feel anything that might help
them out from where they are.
Part of The Good News is this: With higher knowledge comes the
wisdom and the practice to use it.
Focus On Your Strengths
Last year, I took over a small second office next to the one I
have now. I've had it painted and recarpeted. But setting it up
and getting my current office painted / recarpeted seems
I know. I know. I've got to make the time to plan out how I want
it to all look, what I want to get out of it, where I want what,
etc. because my current office just feels too congested.
But I find it overwhelming.
Why I Admire Bob the Builder
Today I want to talk about why I admire Bob the Builder.
Until recently, I never thought much about Bob the Builder. But
over the holidays, I spent some time watching different shows
with my 3 year old son.
He just loves the Wizard of Oz... and seeing Dorothy, the BAD
witch, the good witch, the tin man, the scarecrow, the lion and
It's an amazing film and I'll talk about the messages in it on
How to Persuade Without Really Trying
Recently, the owner of a consulting practice contacted me. In the
email, she said that she needed an easier, more predictable way to
find ideal prospects.
She had already tried a lot of different things but nothing worked.
So we set up a meeting so I could learn more about her situation and
whether I could help.
As we spoke during the meeting, it became clear to me that, yes, I
could help this business owner. I felt quite certain of this.
Lessons I Learned From Paris Hilton
Today I'm going to chat about shameless self-promotion. That's
right, I said it! Shameless! After all, we are learning from
Paris Hilton here.
It's all about self-promotion! Self-promotion comes in many
forms and you can use different tactics to get your name out
there. Look at politicians! Talk about self-promotion and in some
not so discreet ways, at that. But, seriously, consider some of
the major superstars we all know. Madonna, Donald Trump, Howard
Stern and Bill Clinton, just to name a few.
What’s Stopping You?
You’ve been talking about pursuing your dream since high school. You’ve been stuffing a file with places you’d like to travel since you got your first job. You’ve envisioned what your boutique store would look like for years, even driving around searching for the perfect location, yet you’ve never taken that next step.
So, what’s stopping you?
Yes, There Is A Short-Cut To Success!
"Desperate times require desperate measures" I overheard someone
say the other day. I was standing in line to order my late
afternoon Latte at a well-known coffee establishment and the
buzz in the room wasn't from the caffeine, it was from the
customer chat. They were expressing their feelings of being
down and out; hopeless of ever getting back what they've lost or
of ever achieving what they were hoping to achieve; waiting for
times to change before they would dare to decide what they
should do next and their belief that there were no opportunities
in existence anymore.
Celebrity Manifesting (Don't Ever Let Go)
As we begin to understand and apply how we really 'get what we get',
we can become an observer of life and use it to our benefit instead of
life using us.
One of the many ways I love to observe life is through the wonderful
lens of entertainment and celebrity. Why do I use celebrity? Because
we all love to read it and be entertained by it.
How to Use Personal Branding for a Competitive Edge
Before you can learn much about how to use personal branding for
a competitive edge, it's important to have an understanding of
what personal branding is. Fortunately, it's possible to take a
look at the way many successful people have used personal
branding to get a feel for what it is and how it can work for
Subtracting Fear by Adding Gratitude
In the most famous attic of all time, Anne Frank wrote, "We all
live with the objective of being happy; our lives are all
different and yet the same." In his very first speech as
president, Franklin Delano Roosevelt assured a
depression-crippled nation, "The only thing we have to fear is
fear itself." Now, decades later, the study of positive
psychology has shown us that these famous quotes are not only
timeless - they are connected.
Necessary Pain - How to Cope with Emotional Teething and Come
"This too shall pass." For as long as I can remember my mother
has used this phrase, attributed to King Solomon, to ease my
pains. "This too shall pass" was her remedy to everything from
menstrual cramps to the infidelity of my past beaus. And with
good reason; the impermanence of painful times has been
discussed in every religious text and most best-selling
Best Ways To Quit Smoking - This Is The Truly Methods To
If you're a smoker and you want to quit, are there any "best"
ways to quit smoking? In a word, no. There is only the method or
perhaps combination of methods that will work best for you.
Nonetheless, there are some popular techniques that work will
help you quit if you want to.
Happiness, Hope, and Humor - Three Simple H's That Will Change
"The grand essentials of happiness are: something to do,
something to love, and something to hope for." -- Allan K
If you were a parent, grandparent, or small child during the
past forty years, Sesame Street was probably a large part of
your routine. Intentionally or sub-consciously, we all sang
along, played along, learned along. Sesame Street was a
constantly changing show.
Why Inspiration Must Surround You
Are you waiting for inspiration to fall in your lap? The truth
is, you can't just wait for things to happen to you. You have to
make a conscious effort to surround yourself with inspiration.
Even the most motivated and well-intentioned and excited people
need some inspiration from time to time or they'll lose their
How To Find Signs Of Lack Of Perserverance In Business?
A predominant fear of failure tops the list of such signs. The
inseparable outcome of this disease comprises paralyzing
inactivity, the abject apathy. One simply gropes as if in the
dark without knowing what one actually wants to do.
Seven Success Secrets to be Better at Everything
I have never met someone who didn't want to be successful at
something. It's fair to say we all want to be successful. Here
are some tips I've learned over the years that have helped me
stay on track and move toward my dreams:
Responding To Career Setbacks & Job Loss
While career setbacks are often unavoidable, they are not
insurmountable or irreparable: with a good mix of planning,
networking and optimism, you can find yourself a new position or
find a way to circumvent obstacles to growth in your current
5 Reasons Why Couples Turn To Marriage Counseling
There are always going to be times when, in relationships,
there are challenges that come up. The important thing, when it
comes to "saving" broken relationships, is recognizing that
there is a need for change and developing an understanding that
marriage counseling or couples counseling can help to put that
change into motion.
The Power of Thinking BIG
"Imagination is more important than knowledge." I believe no
truer words were ever spoken and they were said by one of the
greatest minds in the history of humanity. Albert Einstein knew a
thing or two about imagination.
Diffusing Anger or Feeding the Flames
Have you ever had an argument with someone - a partner, spouse,
close friend, child, parent or other relative, or a business
associate - that started small and spiraled into an intense
conflict? Have you ever scratched your head, wondering how it
got so out of control?
Align Your Decisions for Success
Success in life is not difficult or tricky. It's not luck either. Success can
be summed up in ONE word: alignment.
For you to succeed, in any endeavor, you must learn to align 4 basic components
of your life.
Now. About those lemons
You may have been encouraged too to make lemonade from the lemons life
throws at you. And you may have thought of it as a pretty encouraging
statement as well. But have you ever wondered whether its life
that throws us those lemons or whether were doing that to ourselves?
Get more done!
Have you ever heard the old saying If you want something done,
ask a busy person? Ever wondered why?
Ever felt stressed out because you never seem to get through
all the chores so you can get to the fun stuff?
Develop a Theme That Inspires You
As the New Year begins, it's inevitable that your thoughts turn to
the changes you want to make or the things you want to achieve this
year. You may have
thought about New Years' Resolutions, even though you know they generally don't
work. A New Year is like a clean sheet of paper, ready to start afresh.
What's Wrong With Your Leadership Skills?
I bet you can't tell me... how many times have you wondered why
your ideas failed to influence, persuade or lead others.
Sometimes, decisions can be risky propositions but you and your
colleagues shouldn't have to bet the house on your leadership
3 Tips For Improving Your Communications
As a manager, you have so much to do and so little time to do it.
You know communicating with your staff is critically important,
but how can you make it easier? Here are 3 techniques you can use:
10 Netiquette New Year's Resolutions
Happy New Year! New attitude? New habits? How about 10 Little
New Year's Netiquette Resolutions?
Yep! Almost every New Year's resolution is based in improved
attitude and habit changes.
Do you have clear goals for 2004? Are you wondering how to achieve
your goals? Good solid plans and a foundation for success will help
you create life and business on your terms.
Putting the 'I' in Team
This sports cliche is a memorable phrase that reminds people that team
success is more important than individual glory. In that sense it is
wonderful and is as true for business teams as it is for sports teams.
The phrase, however, overlooks the role of the individual in making
the team stronger.
Bring Your Dream, Vision or Theme to Life
What do you do on a daily basis to you bring your dream, vision or
theme* to life? One way is to spend time visualizing it. This gives
you the opportunity to keep your dream, vision or theme alive; it allows
you to be in the moment with it and the next step to unfold naturally.
The Ten Habits of Highly Effective
Successful speakers do not do all the right things all the time.
They often take risks and risk bombing. But all top speakers take
daily action, to move towards their goals with many adjustments.
Here are ten ways to be a highly effective speaker.
I Did It All By Myself
I heard an amazing story about an interesting conversation between
a self-made millionaire and his pastor.
The self-made millionaire said, "I started out with nothing.
My parents were broke and didn't give me a thing.
How To Subtract In Your Head
We all have to subtract numbers sometimes... whether it's budgeting
your household expenses, checking your change at the store, or installing
that new shelving unit during a spot of home DIY.
How to Win at Manifesting: (The Tennis Ladder)
We all want to win. Some of us have a passion for winning. Winning does not have
to mean competition. It can simply mean, we get what we want, and we know we
will get what we want. We win our lives the way we want them to be.
Limit Your Limitations
All of us face two kinds of limitations The self- imposed and that which we receive
from family, friends co-workers and anyone else who might hear of our desire
to make changes in our life.
Leadership Musings (1)
In a series of evaluative sessions, a team of leadership students and
myself reviewed various documentaries about the lives of some of
the worlds great leaders.
Leadership Musings (2)
As part of the evaluative sessions about famous leaders, my team of
leadership students and I reviewed a documentary on the life of Jesus.
As was the case with previous reviews, the assessment was based solely
on the subjects leadership skills, and not on who or what he
The Story "From the Chicken
Many years ago my grandfather, had a small fa rm and chickens. One
morning he sent me out to the chicken coop to collect fresh eggs.
He became concerned when I didn't return after a shot interval.
Why Aren't We Happy In Our Marriage Relationships?
My perfect mate would be.....a combination of:
Paris Hilton, Oprah Winfrey, Betty Crocker, Helen Hunt, Helen
Keller, Annie Oakley, Lucille Ball, Cindy Crawford, Marilyn Monroe,
Jennifer Lopez, Ann Landers, Angela Lansbury, Martha Stewart,